School holidays can bring lots of logistical and emotional challenges for co-parents to navigate. Negotiating schedules, planning holidays and ensuring children feel secure and happy during their break can sometimes be stressful.
But with good communication and forward planning, the holidays can be fun for everyone involved.
Practical tips for a stress-free school holiday
1, Plan ahead and communicate early
The earlier you start planning, the smoother the holidays will be. Discuss plans and arrangements with your co-parent well in advance, outlining expectations for time-sharing, activities and any trips you have in mind. This helps prevent last-minute conflicts and allows both parents to make the most of their time with their children.
2, Get properly prepared for foreign travel
If one parent wants to take the children abroad, they should get written permission from the other parent. It’s also a good idea to provide details such as flight and accommodation information and emergency contact numbers. Checking that all passports are valid well in advance can help avoid stress too.
3, Stick to agreements – but try to be flexible
Once a schedule for the holidays is agreed upon, it’s important to respect it. However, a degree of flexibility can also help avoid unnecessary conflict. Unexpected events can arise, and being willing to accommodate reasonable changes can make co-parenting smoother.
4, Keep children at the centre of decisions
The primary focus should always be on the children’s best interests. Ask for their input and preferences where appropriate, and make sure they understand and feel happy with the arrangements. Encouraging a positive attitude towards spending time with both parents can help them enjoy their break rather than feeling caught in the middle.
5, Manage money fairly
Discuss financial expectations in advance. Try to predict the additional costs that might arise, such as for childcare or holiday expenses, and agree how they will be split to help prevent disputes. If necessary, put financial agreements in writing to avoid misunderstandings.
6, Help children stay connected
If children are spending an extended period with one parent, make sure they can stay in touch with the other through phone calls, video chats or messages. This helps maintain consistency and emotional security for them, as well as being considerate towards your co-parent.
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